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Sunday, March 1, 2009

Love Thy Neighbors!


`Abdullah ibn `Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) had a sheep slaughtered. He repeatedly asked his servant,

"Have you sent some meat [as a present] to our Jewish neighbor?" When he said that, he added, "I heard Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) say, 'Gabriel has repeatedly recommended me to be good to my neighbor to the extent that I thought that he would include him [my neighbor] among my heirs' "

(Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi).

Salaams! Tonight we had dinner with our neighbors. They are a young very devout Christian couple with 2 roommates. Sundays are busy for us as we teach Sunday school and run errands. Today was extra busy and I had to cook the main dish so I was a little stressed but we made it! We had a wonderful time! I was actually a little shocked at how much fun we had. I have a lot in common with them all! Jacob (the husband) thinks I'm cool because I can quote lines from one if his favorite movies (Pulp Fiction) and we share a love of "boy" movies and a disdain for chick flicks. Elizabeth (the wife) and I share a love of makeup, Nigella Lawson and we are both a bit uptight! Zach really took to them all :).

So the moral of the story is take the time to get to know at least one of your neighbors; even if they don't look like you, pray like you or cook like you! Take a chance.

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3 comments:

Umm Amirah said...

masha~allah..u found a new friend...**clappin for you**

Hijabi Apprentice said...

LOL! I checked my email tonight and I had an invitation to her birthday party :).

zainab1 said...

As salaamu alaikum sister I read your blog quite often I think its great . sorry this is such a late response to this particular post but I just came across it. However where my family and I live there are mostly very nice people but then there are those who are fitnah. I am very friendly and neighborly, we just got new neighbors where the guys just want to hang out , curse right under my window , smoke , and in my opinion be total bums . myself , my husband and my other neighbors are not use to such behavior and we are not happy about this at all. My husband is going to complain to mangement . What would you do in this situation? any suggestions? We are considering moving. As salaamu alaikum